Importance of Family values in our daily life.

When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching -- they are your family. ” ― Jim Butcher

As soon as the Human steps in this world, the first individual He comes across is his family members. A mother who has taken great pain to bring him to this world. Then, A father who is always there to care for him. Then comes the siblings.

Family always comes First.

Maybe we are one of the lucky ones who was raised in a happy and secure family with two loving persons (parents). Maybe we weren't  and growing up was tough without the love and support we lived for. Likely, as an adult you want a happy home for your family. Living peacefully in a family isn't always easy, but in God’s restored marriage and families are the most important social unit now and in eternity.
People who have lived through a disaster never say, "All I could think about during the earthquake was my bank account." They almost always say, "All I could think about was my parents, my siblings, my wife and children." It shouldn't require a disaster for us to know this truth. But too often, we let earning money, chasing pleasure, or even the needs of people outside our families divert our attention.

Mother.

In Islam the value of mother is 3 times greater than a father. A man once consulted the Prophet Muhammad about taking part in a military campaign. The Prophet asked the man if his mother was still living. When told that she was alive, the Prophet said: "(Then) stay with her, for Paradise is at her feet." (Al-Tirmidhi)
On another occasion, the Prophet said: "God has forbidden for you to be undutiful to your mothers." (Sahih Al-Bukhari)
It should be obvious that our parents deserve our utmost respect and devotion - second only to God. Speaking in the Quran, God says: "Show gratitude to Me and to your parents; to Me is your final Goal." (31:14). In that same verse, God says: "We have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents: in travail upon travail did his mother bear him." The fact that God has mentioned parents in the same verse as Himself shows the extent to which we should strive in our efforts to serve the mothers and fathers who sacrificed so much for us. Doing so will help us to become better people.
If someone asks me to describe relation with my mother, I truly can write an entire book on it. My mother is the only person who can feel my pain through my eyes even if I didn't tell her anything. She is my mentor, guide, adviser  friend and sometimes a critic too (If she needs to oppose any of my decision). I actually feel that I am nothing without her prays which she always do for me and what I am today is just because of her prays for me.

“Obey and respect your mother before it is too late”.

Father.

A Father is someone who wants to catch you before you fall but instead picks you up, brushes you off, and lets you try again.

A Father is someone who wants to keep you from making mistakes but instead lets you find your own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when you get hurt.
A Father is someone who holds you when you cry, scolds you when you break the rules, shines with pride when you succeed, and has faith in you even when you fail.
Islam teaches kindness and utmost respect for both of one's parents, mother as well as father. They say “if there is paradise is at mother’s feet, father is the door of that paradise”. Usually father didn't tell how to live; he lived, and let us watches him do it. He is the one who teaches you how to walk, how to talk and how to behave with other people. Father is to provide for his family, by working, disciplining and nurturing them.
And if I talk about my father he is the perfect example for me that how much a person should be dedicated towards his job and his family. Although I didn't spend too much time with him due to his hectic schedule, he didn't give us enough time but has given us everything we need before even we asked!!

“Father = a son’s first Hero and a daughter’s first love”

Brother.

For me, brother is a friend whom you can trust blindly in your good and bad times. But sometimes you need to be careful with them as well ;) especially from the one who searches your loose point to trolling you. : p and don’t forget usually you also do the same with them as well ;). When you or your brother come late after job or dinner with friends, other one mischievously spread bad airs about it and then tease him by asking why you getting late? “You were in office or a date?” ;).

But on other side if other than your family tried to do something wrong with you and your brother got to know about it from any source I tell you the person who done it will actually think that why did he do this and ask mercy for himself.
My elder brother usually shares very casual behavior with me but if he comes to know I have been through with some problem, he is the one who comes to the rescue and guides me what to do and how to do.
Likewise my younger brother is a shy type person for all, sometimes he didn't make us realize if he went through with any problem but the fact what he can’t change is that we come way before him in this world and being a dear one of parents (actually for us also) sometimes he becomes too unpredictable by inform our plans & surprises to them as well.

Sister.

A sister is someone who loves you from the heart, No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart. She is a joy that cannot be taken away, Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.

Seriously It is my personal experience that how affective having sister and how much she makes your life easier, sometime we just think that it is their duty but actually it was true love that she has for brother. She takes care of very tiny needs of us like serving meals, tea, cooking foods what we demand and even washing and ironing our cloths as well. We didn't appreciate her efforts until she left us to other home after getting married.
Respect it also an element what sisters give us unconditionally, but we also keep it in our mind she also expects something with us. She wants love, respect, understanding and some words of appreciation as well. Mark my word she will return you much more than you give her.

Well... for those who want to know about Wife have to wait until I got,



In our families we love, serve, teach, learn and even fight from each other. We share our joys and our sorrows. Family ties may bring us difficult challenges, but they also give us strength and some of our greatest happiness. While we cannot choose the conditions of our birth, we can choose each day to make our families stronger and happier. It is possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.

Spend quality time with your family, trust me it will definitely improve your mood and useful to improve performance at your workplace as well.